Lenten Malaise

February 23rd, 2015

Lent is only  1/8 over and lassitude seems already to have set in. I can’t remember a year when so few people talked about what they were giving up for Lent or what activities they wanted to take on.

Fortunately, we have a series of lectures coming up on “Faith and the Emotions,” as well as a series of House Eucharists in parishioners’ homes. Both of these activities are new; I hope they will do something to relieve the boredom of Lent here at Incarnation.

Some of the malaise may stem from the unremitting bad weather of this winter. So much of our lives are indoors, it’s amazing that we care so much about the climate outside.

All the more reason to look inside–not least, to look at the state of our souls. –J. Douglas Ousley


February 11th, 2015

A large task force of Episcopal Church leaders has prepared a massive proposal of church restructuring that will be considered by the General Convention this summer. The House of Bishops is now getting ready to elect a new Presiding Bishop, who will serve for nine years.

The winds of change are blowing, which is just as well, since membership in the Episcopal Church declines every year, and dioceses pay less and less of the money they owe to the national church (about one-fifth of assessments aren’t paid.) Unfortunately, restructuring is can be a great substitute for the kind of change that actually increases membership and builds up the church.

Politicking to elect a new leader provides an excuse to avoid the harder work of deciding what a leader ought to say and do. Changing the structure of the church doesn’t necessarily help it define membership. People will be more likely to join us if they know what we stand for. –J. Douglas Ousley

Better Ways to End It All

February 3rd, 2015

With 10 parishioners infirm, sick, or otherwise ailing, I read with great interest Being Mortal by Atul Gawande. Dr. Gawande is a surgeon who teaches at Harvard and writes wonderful pieces for The New Yorker.

Two takeaways for me from this important book on aging and end-of -life-issues:

***There are new nursing facilities that allow for some independence–even at the risk that patients will fall or otherwise injure themselves. I can’t wait for such a place to open in New York City, where most patients are confined to their wheelchairs most of the day.

***Those with terminal illness can often reduce their discomfort by palliative care. To do so, they forego aggressive treatment that has little chance of healing them. This is certainly a better way to approach death–and, for Christians, to prepare for life with God. –J. Douglas Ousley


Snow and Contemplation

January 27th, 2015

Although the authorities wildly overestimated the power of the storm, it has been nice to have no traffic on the roads and a peaceful blanket of white on our urban neighborhood. Since I don’t have to commute to work, I was on hand this morning to shovel the sidewalks and conduct Morning Prayer; one faithful parishioner  wasin attendance.

Later, our office volunteer came in by cab and our sexton is on the way and the phone has started ringing and emails are pinging–so life is returning to normal. But the morning quiet reminds us of why we in the religion business do what we do. To care for the church and pray in it and enjoy its peace. Nothing better. Nothing more important. –J. Douglas Ousley

Paris in the Winter

January 13th, 2015

Our Men’s Group devoted part of last night’s regular meeting to discussing the recent terror attacks in Paris.

Comments were wide-ranging, reflecting the many political orientations of our membership. Some cited history, others sought to find common ground among opponents, others suggested specific prayers. My own worry is that Islamists have become so extreme in their views that they will only be stopped by violence.

Is the sanguine view of liberal Christians that at their heart, all religions are basically the same now a dubious assumption? We have always dissociated ourselves from Christian fanatics who pervert the Gospel in favor of prejudice. But the Islamist fanatics seem to be taking their beliefs to a new level of extremism. (One indication of this development is that Islamic State was founded by a group of Islamists who were kicked out of Al-Qaeda because they were regarded as too violent!) It now remains to be seen whether Islam can restore its own reputation and be regarded as one way among many to the Divine. –J. Douglas Ousley

What Would Jesus Do?

December 17th, 2014

Not too long ago, some Christians were wearing the letters, “WWJD.” They stood for, “What would Jesus do?”

The letters were intended to remind the wearer that, when faced with a difficult moral decision, Christians should always ask themselves what Jesus would do if he were in the same situation.

The fad has passed–and just as well. For Jesus never had to decide whether to drink and drive or whether to support hydraulic fracturing or any number of modern ethical dilemmas; the question is meaningless in those situations.

Much more important is to ask what Jesus does do. We have countless reminders of the answer to this question in the Advent and Christmas seasons when we are reminded that Jesus is a “Savior.” He has come to save us from our sins–to save us from ourselves. Jesus doesn’t save us from pain or toil or heartbreak, but he does save is from giving up in the face of pain.

“What does Jesus do?” What is Christ our Savior already doing for us? –J. Douglas Ousley

All’s Fair

December 1st, 2014

The 72nd Annual Incarnation Christmas Fair will be held this Saturday from 11 AM to 6 PM.

Seventy-two years of Fair is a lot. This event attracts more visitors and phone calls, not to mention money, than any other non-liturgical happening at Incarnation. Admittedly, it’s a sop to consumerism. It also produces much-needed revenue.

But the Fair has other advantages for our church. It gives us a chance to meet and greet many people we wouldn’t otherwise encounter because they don’t share our faith. It demonstrates to the surrounding world that we aren’t just a pile of expensively-repaired stones.

Above all, the gifts on sale are unsubtle reminders of the reason for the season: the Incarnation of the Son of God. The greatest gift of our God.

Which is why this isn’t a a holiday fair. It’s a Christmas Fair. –J. Douglas Ousley

Great Expectations

November 22nd, 2014

The annual Convention of the Diocese of New York last weekend spawned the usual number of socially conscious resolutions. Numerous reports were presented of the good works performed by the diocese’s 200 congregations.

But the workshop on parish growth noted that the Episcopal Church tends often to have low expectations of its membership. They aren’t expected to tithe their incomes or attend church every Sunday. They don’t need to raise their children in the church or profess all the doctrines of the Creeds.

The workshop leader said that this attitude wasn’t conducive to church growth. Instead, church members should be encouraged to strive beyond their comfort zones. And church leaders shouldn’t be afraid to challenge their congregations to work harder and do more. I can’t think of anything in this advice that is contrary to the imperatives of the Gospel of Jesus Christ. –J. Douglas Ousley

For Gratitude Week at Incarnation

October 27th, 2014

One of the first speakers I ever heard on the subject of giving—at a time when “stewardship” was an unfamiliar word in the Episcopal Church—said that Christians shouldn’t make donations to the church out of a sense of duty. Nor should they tithe because they felt guilty if they didn’t.

            Rather, he said, Christians should make their offerings from a sense of gratitude for all that we have received from a loving God. We should give because we are thankful; we should give because we enjoy the fruits of God’s creation.

            And not only is this the right attitude. It also feels better! –J. Douglas Ousley


John Andrew, RIP

October 17th, 2014

One of the great figures of the Episcopal Church in this city. The Rev. Canon John Andrew, OBE, died this morning following a stroke. By means of his truly charismatic personality and remarkable preaching, he turned St. Thomas Church Fifth Avenue from a sleepy backwater into a national center of classical Anglican worship. Rarely does one person have such an institutional effect.

John Andrew was a mentor to me. He preached at my installation as Rector in Rome in 1981 and at my installation at Incarnation in 1985. He also gave the homily at the funeral of my first wife in 2008. He loved my sons, John and Andrew.

At a time when clergy are so often bland and meek, John Andrew never suffered fools gladly. He was a giant in the clerical world. May he rest in peace. –J. Douglas Ousley